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« on: June 10, 2009, 06:42:12 am » |
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as some of you know him as wildcat my bother Sam... I just got a call yesterday from the nursing home he is in.. to tell me that my sister-in-law committed suicide and he wants to come live with me..I would love to have him... but I will have to have him checked out first to see if I could handle him, as he has dementia and has real brain disfunction at times..
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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2009, 09:39:13 am » |
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What an awful situation! I'll be praying for you!
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« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2009, 09:34:34 pm » |
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So sorry to hear of this. We all understand and pray for your help at this time of concern.
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« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2009, 12:00:01 pm » |
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I am so saddened to hear about this, dear Caillea, but you are surely in my thoughts and prayers. 
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« Reply #4 on: June 26, 2009, 11:14:39 am » |
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How is Sam doing?
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« Reply #5 on: June 26, 2009, 12:06:09 pm » |
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not good SRB He goes in and out of deep depression..He was evaluated and the doctor says the nursing home is his home for the rest of his life..I am his only blood relative here.. but I can't have him stay with me..I couldn't handle him, so we are going to sell his home and put the money into a trust fund for him so if he wants to come visit me up here he can...or anything else he may want to do... The nursing home staff says he keeps saying I want to go see my sister..<This hurts me more than you will ever know
I feel I have the room for him but he has to be looked after 24/7 and I can't do that alone
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« Reply #6 on: June 28, 2009, 07:19:05 pm » |
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Please don't feel guilty. I know it's hard for family members to take care of their siblings or parents when they become sickly. He's in the best place to get the care he needs and deserves. Maybe you could visit him...at least the connection would be made on both of your parts. I'll keep praying for him that his faith stays strong.......and yours too.
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